Welcome,
I'm So Glad You're Here!
If you’re struggling to feel fulfilled, joyful, & connected to yourself and the world in light of the world-wide health crisis, know that you are not alone. Pleasure is both healthy & healing - and yes, you’re capable of more than you can possibly imagine!
As a certified Somatic Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker, Masturbation & Orgasm Coach, School of Consent Teacher, Betty Dodson Bodysex Facilitator, and AASECT member, my life goal is to empower people to live fully and joyfully in our bodies. Healing the world, one orgasm at a time, with love and pleasure. All bodies and all genders!
So many of us restrict the pleasure we allow ourselves to feel. Want a better sex life? I provide a compassionate, body-based approach to sexual health and wellness to help you BE YOUR BEST SEXUAL SELF.
Hi. I’m Amy Weissfeld.
As your coach, I can help you:
Heal Body Shame (this has been a big part of my own personal journey!)
Stay In Your Body during Sex
Improve your Masturbation Practice
Increase Intimacy and Better Connect - to yourself and to a partner
Recover from Trauma
Dive into your Sensuality
Overcome Sexual Frustrations & Setbacks
Ditch Guilt
Open your Relationship
Up your Game and learn some fun, new techniques
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Online coaching is
pretty awesome
and way more effective than you might think! With offices in Portland, OR and the Columbia River Gorge, and online clients around the world, it's easy to schedule a session or free 15 min consultation, or simply ask a question in a judgment free, sex-positive space.
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Schedule
a Session
Reunite your body, mind and soul to be your best sexual self. Choose from 60 to 90 minute sessions, in person or online. I also create custom mini-retreats and workshops for out-of-towners who want to maximize in-person coaching during a visit.
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How to
get started?
1. Fill out this mandatory intake form
2. Then, schedule a session using the Reach Out button below.
Or, shoot me an email with questions and we’ll go from there: Amy@JoyfulSelfLove.com.
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My blood leaked around the edges, destroying countless pairs of underwear, spotting my pants, staining not just my clothes but my car’s seat, my friend’s couch, my good living room chair (years later, when I finally had a living room and enough time had passed for me to actually have a good chair!), even the bleachers at my kids lego robotics competition. Requiring emergency trips to bathrooms in shopping malls, convenience stores, downtown, school, and various offices in countless towns. My blood made itself known.
It ran down my legs, sometimes gushing, and generally remained relentlessly like an endless creek flowing steadily for 5 days. It tufted in my pubic hair. Reliably, Day 2 was always the messiest. Still, I loved it.
Frustrating.
It can be frustrating when things don’t work the way we want. Whether it’s the wifi connection so we can watch a movie on Netflix, or the car window not rolling up when we hit the power button, whether it’s the kids missing the school bus and making us late for work, or a partner using all the hot water in the shower leaving us with only cold. And it can be especially frustrating when our body doesn’t work the way we, or our partner, expect.
If all you need is 10,000 hours to become an expert, how many hours do you need to masturbate to become a masturbation coach? This is a wild & rollicking conversation that may not be your cup of tea, but it gives you an idea of my thoughts on self pleasure.
Did you know May is National Masturbation Month? If you’re at a loss for how to kick off your celebrations, then never fear. Sexual wellness coach, somatic sex educator and Sexological bodyworker Amy Weissfeld is here to breakdown 5 tactics for improving …
Did you know May is National Masturbation Month? If you’re at a loss for how to kick off your celebrations, then never fear. Sexual wellness coach, somatic sex educator and Sexological bodyworker Amy Weissfeld is here to breakdown 5 tactics for improving …
If you want to have amazing sex, it's time you start giving it to YOURSELF. Cue Amy Weissfeld, a Somatic Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker, and freaking MASTURBATION COACH. Yes, you read that right, she's the coach you've been waiting for and
I’m collaborating with Peace Buffalo on a new ebook, "How Hot Can You Get? Seven Simple Steps to Sizzling Sex".
I have turned to liquid. Not so much swimming as melting into the sounds of sisters and myself as I/we sink deeper into the mystical, magical experience of erotic recess.
How do I Own My Pleasure, and how might you too, my dear reader, radically love yourself and feel whole?
Step 1: Unstick the Velcro! Clear and replace negative talk…
How do I find the rainbow and how might you too, my dear reader, feed and nourish your own orgasmic life?
If all you need is 10,000 hours to become an expert, how many hours do you need to masturbate to become a masturbation coach?
Spotlight
Ready for a better sex life?
Download our eBook now:
"How Hot Can You Get?
Seven Simple Steps to Sizzling Sex"
We believe sexual healing and freedom are societal mandates.
After meeting last year as panelists on the "Dare To Date Differently" Summit from The School For Love, we were inspired to collaborate on some books and courses. Like many educators and counselors, we are teaching that which we are passionately learning.
What Is Somatic Sex Education?
MY PHILOSOPHY:
My sincere belief is that the body wants to turn towards healthy sexuality as a plant wants to turn towards to sun. Sometimes we just need a little help finding the sun. Tapping into our sexuality and letting go of culturally induced body shame, trauma and repression are often crucial steps to embracing pleasure more fully and to living a sexually fulfilling life.
Much of my work is about helping a body, mind and soul feel united, so a person can safely feel all emotions – including joy, fear, anger and vulnerability. This often leads to an intentional expansion of the ability to experience pleasure. It's been my personal experience and one I hope to share with you.
Personal Contact
Amy's approachable manner
astute body and sensuality insights, and sense of humor make even the most difficult journeys manageable for her clients. So if you're struggling to find your groove or your orgasm, want a more satisfying sensual connection to your body, or have questions about sexual fulfillment, give her a call. Don't strive to survive, strive to thrive and live the life you're fully capable of - one of joy and love, passion and confidence.